Becoming Assertive After Trauma, Anxiety, and Codependency
Whitney Akins Whitney Akins

Becoming Assertive After Trauma, Anxiety, and Codependency

being assertive is especially difficult after they have endured trauma or struggle with anxiety and codependency in relationships.
Many toxic relationships force a person to lose their sense of self as they begin to distrust themselves and others. This creates a cycle of low self-esteem, fear of conflict, and attachment issues. This cycle can create poor boundaries that leave the person feeling invisible and fearful in the relationship.

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Boundaries that Every Codependent Teen and Adult Female Should Set
Whitney Akins Whitney Akins

Boundaries that Every Codependent Teen and Adult Female Should Set

I’ve finally had my breaking point and realized the toxic nature of my narcissistic relationship. I begin counseling only to learn that I have no idea who I am or what I want out of life. I have given every ounce of my personhood to my partner or friend and sacrificed my authentic self-identity in the process. How do I heal the brokenness left behind from a destructive relationship and rebuild my values and self-esteem?

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Is Trauma Therapy Right For Me?
Whitney Akins Whitney Akins

Is Trauma Therapy Right For Me?

Does this sound familiar? Your mood swings are unpredictable, you suffer from nightmares and anxiety, and you feel overwhelmed with daily tasks. As you walk through life, you feel disconnected and lost and find that your relationships are suffering. You have a persistent sense of sadness and fear that comes out of nowhere.

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